God has allowed most of us to engage in something called sisterhood. This sisterhood is where you find yourself relating to the other women you are around. It’s a bond you form that can’t and shouldn’t be easily broken. It is very important for women to have a sisterhood.
What I know to be true is this, all women in this world fight similar battles than different ones. I say that to say this, we are all fighting similar battles, yet we are all so against one another.
Most women struggle with infidelity big time! There is a 98% chance that women will experience infidelity out of her lifetime! 98%, so that means only 2% will not!
Most women struggle with insecurities of feeling beautiful, sexy, and attractive. You know the outside appearance. A woman can be drop dead gorgeous, but if she lacks something she truly wants in life, her beauty means absolutely nothing to her. Which in turns leave her feeling insecure.
Most women struggle with identity! Who they really are! They have been around so many people in their lives, who have told them who they are not, that they can’t even figure out who they truly are!
Most women struggle with feeling worthy. They struggle with their value! What they are worth gets compromised more often than usual. So many women find their value in others! It’s completely devastating when this happens, because when that other person you found value in leaves you, you are become depleted! You have to rebuild yourself because the foundation was never built on you.
This is why it’s so important to have a sisterhood. Some one to talk to when you don’t feel like yourself. Someone to vent to without judgement. This is so important for sisterhood, because we all fight the same battles differently. Your way may can help the next woman in her battle.
Sisterhood is important!!!!
Sisterhood is uplifting one another. Understanding one another. Encouraging one another. Showing up for one another. Listening to one another. Fighting for one another. And admitting when one is wrong and apologizing to one another for the wrong doing.
As life goes on, many sisterhoods get broken up. The sad reality of most broken sisterhoods have come from a variety of things happening in life.
1. A man has changed the dynamic of their relationship
2. Careers has changed the dynamic of their relationship
3. Motherhood has changed the dynamic of their relationship
4. Drive and achieving goals has changed the dynamic of their relationship
5. Evolutionary of one has changed the dynamic of their relationship
6. Domestic abuse has changed the dynamic of their relationship
7. Lies, betrayal, toxicity, and disloyalty has changed the dynamic of their relationship
8. Unspoken apologies has changed the dynamic of their relationship
9. Miscommunication has changed the dynamic of their relationship
10. Truth has changed the dynamic of their relationship.
I listed a lot of things we as women go through. I guarantee every woman reading this can relate to at least 2 things! I don’t say 1 because we all fight the same battle(s).
Sisterhood is amazing yet can become very complicated. Especially when the 10 things I just mentioned occurs. Sisterhood can be challenging but sometimes are worth the challenges. Even in the most challenging ones, some find themselves back to each other and some don’t. My heart aches for those who do not find their way back. Very heartbreaking!!!
Don’t let things keep you in the way of your truest sisterhood with another woman! Find a way back and own up to whatever it was that kept the sisterhood apart!!
Sisterhood is IMPORTANT!!!!
Finding sisters that will go through life with you is a pure blessing. Holding on to those sisters is a rare blessing. So if you have sisters that you have bonded with that are still fighting with you THINK OF THAT AS A BLESSING!!