When you let them keep doing the same thing to hurt you, you dishonor yourself!! Every time you dishonor yourself you teach them how to dishonor you!!!
Relationships bring about so many things. They bring about love, happiness, joy, hope, fear, shame, guilt, unworthiness, lost, hurt, trust, untrustworthy, heartbreak, anger, self- doubt, hate, emotions, lust, lies, dishonesty, disloyalty, loyalty, depression, abuse, disappointments, and most of all FORGIVENESS!
Read all of that again!!!
How can you find peace after any of that?
That’s the question many ask themselves!
You must find peace after a heartbreak because if not, you will never love again. Every person you come in contact with, will have to relive the last person’s mistakes.
Finding peace will not come easy but I can say it will come.
How do you find the peace? The answer is forgiveness!!!! You must forgive the person even if they don’t know you are doing so.
Forgiveness is key to having peace!
For the woman who has been through the most heartbreaking relationships, forgive him!
For the woman who has been through the worst divorce in the history of divorces, forgive him.
For the woman who has been mentally, physically, verbally abused, forgive him.
For the woman who has giving all she could give, only to get nothing in return, forgive him.
For the woman who has been left out in the cold because he just up and left and decided to move on, forgive him.
For the woman who has battled with low self esteem because he didn’t make you feel worthy, forgive him
For the woman who has been married and has found out he has cheated, forgive him
For the woman who can’t find hope because he took everything you had to give, forgive him
For the woman who has been left to do it all alone and figure it out on your own, forgive him.
For the woman who cries herself to sleep because he lies over and over and over, forgive him.
For the woman who has been humiliated, forgive him.
For the woman who waits for the time that never comes for him to change, forgive him.
You must forgive him and move on! You must truly look at yourself in the mirror and say I FORGIVE HIM AND MOVE ON!!! Whatever happens will happen!!!
Every woman has been through something with a man. The true power comes when you can forgive someone when they have truly hurt you. The hurt that causes you to think HOW COULD HE DO THIS TO ME!!! Yet somehow you find it in your heart to forgive him!
Some of us forgive and move on without any emotions involved. Some of us have to do it with tears in our eyes. Some of us have to hurt him back first, then forgive him. Some of us just can’t move on even with forgiving him.
My truest response to finding peace is FORGIVING THE PERSON NO MATTER WHAT IT TAKES! Even if forgiving hurts, still do it! YOU MUST FORGIVE IN ORDER TO MOVE ON!!! Even if you stay with a person after they have done you bad, YOUR FORGIVENESS WILL OUTWEIGH EVERYTHING!!!
Don’t be stupid!!!! And don’t constantly keep taking a person back after they have constantly ridiculed THE RELATIONSHIP!!! When you let them keep doing the same thing to hurt you, you dishonor yourself!! Every time you dishonor yourself you teach them how to dishonor you!!! Forgive and move on!!!
The time will come when all the forgiveness will all make sense!
Be smart!!! You are the Prize!!! That’s his lost! 😊