You must choose You

The value of knowing who you are, makes all the difference when in a relationship.

I am going to take you on this 4 day journey explaining how to honor yourself as a women. Most women are fighting the battle of truly understanding who they really are.

YOU MUST CHOOSE YOU FIRST IN ORDER FOR HIM TO CHOOSE YOU!!!

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YOU MUST CHOOSE YOU FIRST IN ORDER FOR HIM TO CHOOSE YOU!!!

Honoring yourself and knowing your value means so much. It is the foundation of what your relationship will be built upon.

You must understand you are the PRIZE POSSESSION!

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YOU MUST UNDERSTAND YOU ARE THE PRIZW POSSESSION!

You cannot let a man dictate how you choose to be a woman. The moment you give him the authority to make decisions for you, is the moment you lose yourself.

Valuing yourself includes when you give yourself to him! This is by far the biggest and most important thing a man looks at when choosing you. See the very moment you choose yourself by making him wait on you, is the very moment you validate his thinking.

See a man watches everything you do! He is a logical thinker. If it is easy for him to get you(sleep with you), then he thinks it’s easy for every other man to sleep with you. At that very moment you lose, no matter how good you are to him, YOU LOSE! No matter how long your relationship is, you have already lost him.

See when you value yourself by letting him wait, you teach him how to value you.

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SEE WHEN YOU VALUE YOURSELF BY LETTING HIM WAIT, YOU TEACH HIM HOW TO VALUE YOU!

YOU TEACH HIM YOU RESPECT YOURSELF AND IN TURN TEACH HOW TO RESPECT YOU

Real men love a chase!!!!! If you hold out, he begins to find ways to see how he could get you not to hold out!!!

For example,

He will wine and dine you to see if that works. – IF YOU HOLD OUT 😊

He will begin to tell his boys about you- IF YOU HOLD OUT 😊

He will buy you expensive gifts – IF YOU HOLD OUT 😊

He will show you a side of him no other women could ever relate to seeing – IF YOU HOLD OUT😊

He will fall in love with you and catch deep feelings for you- IF YOU HOLD OUT😊

He will study you like it’s no one’s business- IF YOU HOLD OUT 😊

See this is where he turn his desires off you tend to your desires!!

This is where the connection is made! This is where the friendship is made! This is where the trust is made! This is where the foundation is made when he decides he doesn’t ever want to lose you! You will not ever have to worry about losing him if you – DECIDED TO HOLD OUT😊

THIS IS WHERE YOU SHOW HIM YOU ARE THE PRIZE!!! And that NOT JUST ANYBODY COULD HAVE YOU 😊

Most women want to make all these connections after they have giving themselves to a man first. Then wonder why none of these things could be accomplished! It’s because you missed the first step of the relationship which was VALUING AND RESPECTING YOURSELF!

You want a beautiful relationship that will not be perfect by any means but will be worth it- HOLD OUT AND CHOOSE YOU FIRST!!!

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