In every relationship there will be ups and downs. The thing is, what is worth forgiving and what’s not is solely on the person who has to forgive.
Sometimes forgiving a person can be beneficial for the person doing the forgiving.
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Forgiving others always bring healing and peace!
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Every one deserves a second chance! I see a lot of relationships allow egos to ruin something so amazing, because one can’t forgive.
Sometimes people allow others to make decisions for them when forgiveness is required. What the people around them are saying they should or should not do! Meanwhile when it’s their turn, they forgive with the quickness!
STOP LISTENING TO EVERYONE AND LISTEN TO YOURSELF
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Most of the time in a relationship, we often live by a fairytale that has been embedded in our thoughts. When things go wrong we go back to that perfect love story, as if love was suppose to be perfect! No one is perfect but it’s the imperfections that make things so perfect!
One thing I will leave with the forgiveness message is this, when forgiving someone get down to the root of why the very thing you are forgiving them for HAPPENED!
Don’t just forgive, because it probably will happen again if you do not hold them accountable. Also underline THE WHY, because this will help identify the problem. If nothing can be underline chances are the same thing will occur!
FORGIVE AND LET GO!!!
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Don’t forgive someone and keep bringing the stuff up because that’s not forgiving!! You only makes matters worse when you do this! Allow someone to make a mistake but don’t penalize them their whole life for that one mistake! Would you like that? We are not perfect!!
Greatness sometimes comes from mistakes!!! Most mistakes produce greatness just because NOTHING IS PERFECT!!!!