I’m a firm believer when you set standards, your are letting people know your worth!
So many of us have been told, we set our standards too high. Well the higher you set your standards, the higher your worth becomes!
I’m gone say that again!
The higher you set your standards, the higher your worth becomes!
So many times the African American woman has to lower her standards because society doesn’t view her worth as much worth anyways. We are called everything except what we are truly worth when it comes to this world we live in!
You are a Goddess and a Queen!
We can’t be our true selves because the communities we are from, judge every aspect of our lives. We have everyone against us! That’s why is so important for you to know your worth! Know who you are!!! You can’t let anyone take that part away from you!
As you enter in relationships, if he can’t give you what you want, then he is definitely not the one for you. We think we can fix him up to what we want him to be. The truth of the matter is this, he should already come WELL PREPARED without any fixing up. You can tell a boy from a man! A boy needs fixing up ! A man knows what he wants and he will not sugarcoat any of his wants! Sometimes that’s intimidating to us as well! When a man knows what he wants and you are not of us standards. Ouch!!!!
We so used of not getting what we want, that we begin to settle for just about anything anyone wants to offer us. You are more than that!!!
I look at all these black men who date these white women(I truly don’t have a problem with that) it’s just they are allowed to be sexy, smart, business women, stay at home moms, many babies because he will stay and help raise them, and never have to deal with the shenanigans black women have to deal with while dating or married to them!
You can’t be too sexy- LIES
YOU CANT BE A BUSINESS WOMAN- LIES
YOU CANT BE A STAY AT HOME MOM- LIES
YOU CANT BE SMART- LIES!
The difference between white women and black women is this, they WILL NOY BUILD NO MAN UP, they will not be no RIDE OR DIE, they will not put up with too much of his STUFF, and they definitely will not let him leave them with taking all the responsibilities of the kids!(he will pay child support)
I look at Kim and Kanye- I always say if his wife was black she couldn’t be that sexy and he still would be with her! I like Kim because she sets her worth and is very unapologetic about her sexiness!
Meanwhile I applaud Jay and Bey because he allows her to be who she is but she KNOWS HER WORTH- SHE GIVES SEXY AND VERY UNAPOLOGETIC ABOUT IT 😊😜 I HAD TO DO IT FOR ALL MY FOLLOWERS WHO KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE BEYONCÉ 😊
BE WHOMEVER YOU WANT TO BE AND MAKE HIM ADD TO YOUR STANDARDS NOT SUBTRACT!!!!!!!