Gracefully Broken

This morning as I was in praise and worship in my car the song by Tasha Cobbs came on. She started off by saying HAVE YOU EVER BEEN GRACEFULLY BROKEN. So I turned it up and I listened to it. She said sometimes God will take you through some things to break you gracefully!! I had to shout!!!! MY GOD!!!

Have you ever been gratefully broken by God?

I have! You see God takes you through things that you may not understand at the time but he does it so gracefully.

It was a time in my life that I had to be broken gracefully. I had to be taking down many paths that I was so unfamiliar with. In the time I was going through it, I didnโ€™t understand WHY! But today I can tell you why I went through those very stages of my life.

I had to go through it to get to here. To get to this blogging thing. To get to inspiring women of all kinds. Whether you are in a relationship or not. Whether you have dreams and goals you want to come true. Whether you want to change your mindset or not. Whether or not you need self love or re assurance. I had to go through so much to get here. If I would have quit along the way, there would not be a blog! If I didnโ€™t understand God must break you to make you and greatness comes with a process, WE WOULD NOT BE HERE!

God is the foundation of all things and when you lose sight of that, you lose sight of everything.

When you are in a rough spot in your life all you want is to give up or be ready for all of whatever it is you are going through to be over with! In this time in your life is when you have to trust the process. You have to find purpose in that most difficult place you are in.

God breaks you to shape you!

I found purpose when God broke me! As much as it hurts, you must find purpose. Instead of asking why me God, ask what do you want me to do God. God will answer you. ๐Ÿ˜Š

I had to experience things to speak to certain people. If I couldnโ€™t relate how could I speak to them and how could they feel me or my spirit! People relate to what they been through!

I had to lose my sister to understand losing friends were not that bad after all. Even if it was my best friends! Nobody could compare to my relationship with my sister so if I was able to keep trucking without her here, sure I could it with so called friends.

I had to become strong for my parents not know I would be the one who cared for my family!

I had to go from being the best nanny any kid could ask for, to being the disciplinary to four young men I think the world of. Not understanding ย they would come to me for the craziest advice! Boys are something else lol! Sometimes I have to say I am your nanny still! I donโ€™t want to hear that. But they trust my thoughts and opinions.

I had to go through a rough patch in my marriage that I was absolutely devastated by. But God showed both my husband and I what real love was about! And I can truly help couples the way I always wanted to help them. Because when I tell our history they are so inspired by our lives. When you know you are not just married to the person but also married to God EVERYTHING WORKS ITSELF OUT!

Being the worst child grown up to the most amAzing daughter any mother or father could ask for!! Yes, I pat myself on the back sometimes but they have told me this as well! God took a lot of things from me because I was disobedient growing up and it wasnโ€™t until I started to change and tell my parents I would make them proud! My parents come to me for advice lol! Love them with everything in me! Obedience to God and your parents will get you along way in life!!!

Talking about gracefully broken!!! God has broke me a couple times in my life! Those are just a few!!!!!!!!

What I will offer in this blog is when God breaks you, know he is doing it gracefully! His intentions are always BEYOND GOOD! He knows the plans he have for your life, plans to prosper you!!!

Do not stay stuck once you are broken! Learn from it and make a change! Because he is really trying to elevate you or promote you!!!

Gracefully broken= time to make a change!!


When he breaks you, thatโ€™s when you begin to ask questions. And not why me God! More like, what do I do from here God.

Lovetsw ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’•





10 thoughts on “Gracefully Broken

    1. I So understand exactly what you are saying, So Real, So True…….I can only say ” But GOD”!…..He is My All ana All!

  1. I’m a first time blogger and hot my blog name from that very same song…love what your doing…your giving me so much inspiration. God Bless you๐Ÿ˜Š

    1. Awesome. Itโ€™s an amazing thing to blog. I love blogging!!! Thanks so much for the compliment. I always try to inspire or encourage someone with every blog. @kendrag57

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